by Martin and Rich Lee
Mental health problems are a persistent stigma in many Asian American communities which makes it hard for people to seek support and services. A friend who will listen without judgment is a good start. But sometimes friends want to just give advice or talk about themselves. In Lila’s case, she forgets listening to Mari requires not talking.
Martin and Rich Lee are second-generation Korean American brothers. Martin is a retired elementary school teacher and the illustrator of the strip. Rich is a professor of psychology in Asian American studies at the University of Minnesota and writes the content.

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